31-Assumptions fuck off

I think to many folks forget that they live only in their worlds. What was the lesson you learned as a kid about assuming??!?!? Don’t!! Remember the ass outta you and me part?

I don’t really watch the news or gossip but when something “important” happens folks love to tell.

I finally got around to seeing the pic of Willow Smith on the bed.

I am beyond DISGUSTED with people who ASSUME, comment, and flame a situation they know nothing about. You think she was “traumatized” yeah thanks slopped brain helper for moving that train faster!

Our society encourages us to be superficial in our concern and fake with our sincerity. Get real fix your own home before you assume what’s wrong with another based on BEYOND limited knowledge… a fuckin picture at best, really!!!

As mature adults we should have hypothesis based on ideas that are basedbon factual ideas.. Not assumptions. How presumptuous for a STRANGER to think they can better see through a fuckin pic what is going on in a family dynamic…

The disgusting things said about a CHILD and her family and those that stand by and agree or stay silent.. is disgusting and just as bad as any other injustice we stand by and allow.

I’m a social work who has seen bad… I don’t condone abuse, ever I expect people to show genuine concern not disgusting envy. Where was the wagon when the 50+ year old actor married his 16 year old girl friend and divorced her at 19 here in the US, WTF where you flappin birds at then!??



Jambalaya Jam 5/24/14

We lool foward to seeing yall on FB from 10-1pm Daily PST


Today’s topic: Purpose do you have one?  What are you doing to achieve your goal or to find it?

My purpose in life is to use my talents and acceptance to inspire, motivate, and support others to freely embrace their life with joy, abundance, and harmony. Gg


29- Last summer

IMG_0279Last summer( 2013 ) I drove myself, and my 3 kidlets 3000 miles round trip in a seriously eco sized car(its a story you want to hear Ill tell you about it later)  to visit Bd and her family for some summer fun.. I do not have cable.. I have netflix and hulu I pay less than $20 a month for entertainment. So let me tell you that I was STUNNED shitless with the vast amount of info being regurgitated in varying ways through cable TV, now! It’s a info-fuckin-topia! I had cable before but let it go at least 3 year now, so my mind was on a joyous overload.  With the vast amount of info that I was consuming I felt like I was becoming a polarized genius and jack of all trades.

  • I watched season 3 of GOT  I started in the afternoon and well yeah.. I was up until the next Am.. I had about 3 hours of sleep and I was off to the races again.. I had already read the books I wanted to make sure they were keeping to the script.. ummhumm
  • Cooking shows make me giddy with joy. really really
  • the violence and sexual content is extraordinary.. its startling yet enticing.
  • the combination of food and sex has happened on tv in main stream! YES I didn’t miss it! Thank you to the calabo effort of Anthony Bourdain and CNN delic.

But heres the other side to that intoxicating coin! Cable is the devil!!

That fucker is an expensive habit not first but alone that is a reason!! Lets just tip into what a monthly damn cable bill ranges.  $19.99 – $300.00 or more.

Sooooooooo… just for you that are not quick on the math draw (which I am not).. Come with me you will see the bigger picture and you will see what that truly means. …. (imagine and hum Charlie and the Choc Factory Willy wonka 1970’s version as you now re-read above ;0) )

  • 1 year = $239.88 – $3,600
  • 2 years= $ 479.76 -$7,200
  • How about 5years=$1,199.40-$18,000

Here’s the thing. LESSON ALERT.

Now before anyone starts getting mad and crying or making a scene, ,<———YEAH You!!  This is for you!!! It’s ok this is personal and it will be a place to help make you into something new or piss you the fuck off.. either way, Keep reading. ;0)

STOP complaining about shit!

IF you say ANY of the following things or EVEN THINK them

  • Im broke
  • You say “I can’t” more than you can because of “money issues”
  • Money is tight but when is money not tight for you?
  • Bank account is empty or Your over drafter OR Your live on your overdraft YES YOU!!!  WE SEE YOU
  • You eat out every day of the week but have no food at home (Starbucks COUNTS)
  • Any bill is late
  • You don’t have a bill in your name… grrrr really!?!?!
  • You find yourself making groceries by picking up things from friends and families houses.

STOP COMPLAINING if you have fucking ANYTHING in your life that is beyond the necessities and you think, act, or say you have money issues or problems. Trust, cable is just an easy example of something we can touch and understand.

Here’s the thing.. Be brave and substitute cable for clothes, makeup, eating out, sex, drugs, books, a new watch, your hair getting cut every week or being  “done” by anyone that cost on a regular,  your nails and feet, a new gadget or shoes. Anything that is not a necessity to survive is not needed if your complaining. People only complain about things that they can change.

It’s not a sacrifice to not have cable or a big car it is FUCKING PRACTICAL. Think about it!?!?! Can you find a better deal or even an alternative? The answer is YES and without much work or effort! So WTF are you really complaining about and WHY?

This time last year were you complaining about the same shit you are this year?


Enter here


Raw truths are meant to free us

Haven’t we learned yet?

when we hide them, they just eat us.

They eat away at the who we are and try’s to pull us in many directions…

to places we never really reach..

Instead we struggle through

Thats what we say… But the truth is.. we travel to places we have no desire to be

only adding greater to the misery…

Then one day you say enough…

But only when you find brave..
Yes not fear..

you leave that travel guide behind

Hire Tenacity, love, peace, joy


Take a moment to quiet the loud

and think…


Imagine That? A simple shift

Perception is every thing!


27-Do you FB?

I swear its like a freeken badge. 


I twitter

I am now a farken twitter heheheh

But you know what

This is part of the game of CO-MUNI-K-fuck-shin!

I love people and interacting with them but REALLY!!! Fb and making friends is like being back at school and being the geeky yet sexy kid… 

FUN!!!! Add me I love to make friends IN FACT We rock at it!!!


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