I know you wanna look…. video of me HEY y’all! ;0)

I know you wanna see who is behind the words.. Well here is my half! Hey y’all! Im an all star! Don’t judge me and if you do tell me what you think! LOL

Wait a minute!! Don’t forget about me. I did my welcome too! Check it out.


29- Last summer

IMG_0279Last summer( 2013 ) I drove myself, and my 3 kidlets 3000 miles round trip in a seriously eco sized car(its a story you want to hear Ill tell you about it later)  to visit Bd and her family for some summer fun.. I do not have cable.. I have netflix and hulu I pay less than $20 a month for entertainment. So let me tell you that I was STUNNED shitless with the vast amount of info being regurgitated in varying ways through cable TV, now! It’s a info-fuckin-topia! I had cable before but let it go at least 3 year now, so my mind was on a joyous overload.  With the vast amount of info that I was consuming I felt like I was becoming a polarized genius and jack of all trades.

  • I watched season 3 of GOT  I started in the afternoon and well yeah.. I was up until the next Am.. I had about 3 hours of sleep and I was off to the races again.. I had already read the books I wanted to make sure they were keeping to the script.. ummhumm
  • Cooking shows make me giddy with joy. really really
  • the violence and sexual content is extraordinary.. its startling yet enticing.
  • the combination of food and sex has happened on tv in main stream! YES I didn’t miss it! Thank you to the calabo effort of Anthony Bourdain and CNN delic.

But heres the other side to that intoxicating coin! Cable is the devil!!

That fucker is an expensive habit not first but alone that is a reason!! Lets just tip into what a monthly damn cable bill ranges.  $19.99 – $300.00 or more.

Sooooooooo… just for you that are not quick on the math draw (which I am not).. Come with me you will see the bigger picture and you will see what that truly means. …. (imagine and hum Charlie and the Choc Factory Willy wonka 1970’s version as you now re-read above ;0) )

  • 1 year = $239.88 – $3,600
  • 2 years= $ 479.76 -$7,200
  • How about 5years=$1,199.40-$18,000

Here’s the thing. LESSON ALERT.

Now before anyone starts getting mad and crying or making a scene, ,<———YEAH You!!  This is for you!!! It’s ok this is personal and it will be a place to help make you into something new or piss you the fuck off.. either way, Keep reading. ;0)

STOP complaining about shit!

IF you say ANY of the following things or EVEN THINK them

  • Im broke
  • You say “I can’t” more than you can because of “money issues”
  • Money is tight but when is money not tight for you?
  • Bank account is empty or Your over drafter OR Your live on your overdraft YES YOU!!!  WE SEE YOU
  • You eat out every day of the week but have no food at home (Starbucks COUNTS)
  • Any bill is late
  • You don’t have a bill in your name… grrrr really!?!?!
  • You find yourself making groceries by picking up things from friends and families houses.

STOP COMPLAINING if you have fucking ANYTHING in your life that is beyond the necessities and you think, act, or say you have money issues or problems. Trust, cable is just an easy example of something we can touch and understand.

Here’s the thing.. Be brave and substitute cable for clothes, makeup, eating out, sex, drugs, books, a new watch, your hair getting cut every week or being  “done” by anyone that cost on a regular,  your nails and feet, a new gadget or shoes. Anything that is not a necessity to survive is not needed if your complaining. People only complain about things that they can change.

It’s not a sacrifice to not have cable or a big car it is FUCKING PRACTICAL. Think about it!?!?! Can you find a better deal or even an alternative? The answer is YES and without much work or effort! So WTF are you really complaining about and WHY?

This time last year were you complaining about the same shit you are this year?


Enter here


Raw truths are meant to free us

Haven’t we learned yet?

when we hide them, they just eat us.

They eat away at the who we are and try’s to pull us in many directions…

to places we never really reach..

Instead we struggle through

Thats what we say… But the truth is.. we travel to places we have no desire to be

only adding greater to the misery…

Then one day you say enough…

But only when you find brave..
Yes not fear..

you leave that travel guide behind

Hire Tenacity, love, peace, joy


Take a moment to quiet the loud

and think…


Imagine That? A simple shift

Perception is every thing!



May 15, 2014
Hey y’all! :

Today we would like to offer you the opportunity to help us change lives through the re-telling of our story as friends of 23 plus years while leaving a legacy of change.

Thank you in advance for looking over our ideas.

For every rejection we say thank you for taking us one step closer to our success!

Below you will find our idea for a Late 80’s early 90’s based comedy/sitcom that is being retold from the adult perspective and blended all together to be funny while giving pointed life lessons.

It is our goal to give back and touch girls who were just like us and have now become women.

Name of the show: Air Force Brats


2 Teen girls Ages 13 and 14 and 2 adult women mid 30’s

13yo-Father (Officer Chaplin of the Us Air Force), step mother, paternal grandmother, paternal first cousin, and 1 yo sister.

14yo-Father (Top Secret Clearance) and Daughter

2 African American girls who meet for the first time in Hawaii and  on an Air Force Base; their fathers are active duty military; and how they become friends within 1.5 years only to keep that friendship alive over the next 15 years before they saw each other again.  This is a comedy about snail mail over internet; long distance charges and before call waiting. This is a love story that has spanned 23 years and is still going. We have had 8 kids, 4 marriage, 4 degrees and a shit load of crazy adventures to share.

1 from Mississippi and one from California.

The show is about their adventures in becoming best friends. wWo bother have fathers who are their primary care givers. One father is single the other is a Father and a Step Mother.

Welcome to our adventures!

21-4 of 10


Todays assignment was to make a list of accomplishments, see it’s easy to rub your self up and look all shinny, but after the last 3 days of tearing down and bear bones exposure a gal enjoyed the boost lol
So Jack understood and he asked you to get clear.

Break down your life into 3rds
Or how ever old you are shit figure it out, it took me a minute and no I’m not 45 ;0)

Now write down 5 things per period that you accomplished.

We all enjoy the accolades, it made me want more. Changes are not easy but hey neither is enduring the pain.

I had the time to reflect and I found that through it all I’m one kiss ass fucker!!! Now rock on I must!

Go you too! Hell it never hurts to rub one out

19-Day 3 0f 10

Today is the day I stop blaming. I am challenging you to do the same!

I am participating in a 10 days challenge with Jack Canfield (chicken soup for the soul guy/The Secret) Click the link if your interested!

Today is day3 of 10

Day 1. Read intro and write down 5 things I wanted to transform in my life.

1. Confidence in my ability to achieve my goals to continue to live in wealth, abundance, health and successfully.

2. Life, career, finical stability, comparability, growth, prosperity.

3. Extensive travel world wide for lea sure life of luxury and wealth comfort abundance and joy

4. Billionaires Status

5. An empire and legacy for myself, children and family.


Day 2. Read and complete the work sheet transforming our exudes into Action.


Day 3. Watch video” Liberate yourself from the blame game”, Create a list of 5-10 blaming behaviors you are going to eliminate from your life from this point forward; Create a list of NEW behaviors your going to use to reclaim TOTAL power per your own life.; Share your new behaviors!


Today I listed all of these things I used as a crutch and it ends today. Today I will be brave and let it go, accepting change.

1. I was a teen mom at 15 and I felt like a statistic, I was unmarried and a failure. It set me back and ruined my chances at many things

2. Lack of parental stability. My parents had some serious issues but hell

3. Lack of stability growing up, money, knowledge, and access.

4. Divorces

5. Ex’s actions of “lying and hurting me”

6. Past failures

7. Any person who “failed me”

8. Being fired

9. Foundation or the lack there of

10. Economy, “Them”; “They”, Not me


Today I am releasing any blame that I would put on ANYTHING & ANYONE outside of MYSELF. I am in Total control of myself!

Now rock on and you find yo ass something to change and take control of today. Stop giving away your power. TODAY.

That is all.